Custom Wedding Dress & Kimono Upcycled Clothes | オーダーメイドウェディングドレス&着物ドレス
Although it’s still hot during the day here in Japan, I started to feel fall in the air. The air is crisp in the morning and at night. I began planning for the fall/winter sewing. As a starter, I sketched new designs. I don’t always sketch when I start on new designs, but I am trying to be better at it..
And as soon as I sketch, my hands start to get itchy and I have to jump on my sewing machine to turn the sketch into a real clothes.
What are you working on this fall?
Kimono cardigan (also via Etsy)
The shop has been updated with a final summer piece – Kimono cardigan. It is a good transition piece from summer to fall. This is the last of the three Summer piece series (First one here, and second one here) I worked on with Jessica of Hapatime. She really did a fantastic job on styling and modeling the pieces, and I’m so happy with the photos! You can check out Jessica’s post here.
Pictures from Tama Zoo we visited on Labor Day
I haven’t updated here on our adoption/foster care processes, but we actually made quite a bit progress over the summer! We attended a bunch of meetings and foster care group courses. We also got the chance to visit an orphanage.
I wrote about our first group course here. The second one was held a month later, and of course, it was on Sunday. I feel like every event falls on Sundays, which is a problem for us since we attend church on Sundays. But considering that the Child Guidance Center offers these courses that are required for hopeful foster parents only twice a year, we just had to do it when they were offered.
After the first group course I came home terribly depressed and sad because the meeting revolved around the issue of foster parent abuse. It saddened me to think of these children and made me really consider what is necessary for me not to become an abuser like these other people. Thankfully, after the last two meetings, I came home encouraged because the topics were generally more pleasant and revolved around various exciting child raising possibilities. After these meetings, I felt very secure that we could be suitable foster parents. Still though, there was a feeling of irritation I could not quite shake.
During these latter two meetings, we had chances to spend time getting to know other couples who wanted to be foster parents. We had a group discussion times where we could share our thoughts on the study materials, ask questions and and reveal concerns. This is from where my irritation stems. I noticed that many couples had personal, marital and relationship issues that need to be dealt with before they should consider enter the foster care program. Three out of five couples who attended the courses said they are thinking of foster care only because they could not have their biological children. What saddened me was that the wives were so desperate, they’ve probably tried fertility treatments for years (I’m guessing because they seemed older, 40s or maybe in 50s), but the husbands were so indifferent and distant. One guys said he wasn’t even sure if he wanted to do this, but his wife forced him into attending the courses. The other guy said he only needed a child for inheritance purposes. Inheritance?! Are you Bill Gates?! What do you have thats so wonderful?! At another meeting with these same couples we had a chance to visit inside an orphanage. Te husbands spent their time outside smoking, uninterested and uncaring. Why would anyone give these people children?
If that’s the reality of the foster care in Japan, I’m heart broken. The kids might be better off staying at the orphanage with government supplied care takers.
